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May 14, 2010

Before and After...

This first picture was of my car's "rear end" when I was with Jim in Toano...  He co-signed on my loan on the 2007 Chevy Equinox I bought before starting the daily 100 mile round trip commute to my new job (in 2007) to Chesapeake...  After splitting up and realizing that his name was "first" on the title and, while I made the payments from day one, I would never receive any DMV notifications (or be allowed to change my tags) or recall info from GM, I decided to return the Equinox to Jim's driveway about 2 years ago...  He was furious, as he was in Hong Kong at the time, and I really didn't care...  It was the last thing that kept me tied to him and I wanted it done...


This is the picture of my new "rear end" (all alone, no one else on the title) 2010 Ford Fusion (Motor Trend car of the year):



Which tag do you like better?

Over and grandfatherly "Out" from a day off in Portsmouth, VA

9 comments:

the cajun said...

Good on ya! It's always best to be free of the past attachment and move on.
That's what I am doing too. Moving into my own space after 3 years in recovery hell after 30 years with one man. It's been a slow healing process but I feel whole again.
BTW, the new plate is more fun. Enjoy the new wheels.

Anonymous said...

Good god, what a petty fag you are. So your ex got a car loan for you. And after you broke up you decided to dump the car and car payments on him? Nice, really nice. Pretty ungrateful, just because you couldn't get new car tags? And he dumped you? Makes one think with actions like this after the break up what kind of vindictive petty behavior you had during the relationship. Good luck with this relationship, your actions make you out to be a winner, not.

Tom (Thomas) Rimington said...

Anonymous: I may be petty, but I am not "fag" to anyone other than someone I know...

If someone other than that choses to use that as a description of who I am, I pitty him or her...

Perhaps the Person you are with has deceived you in thinking otherwise, but the best thing to happen to me was the total severance of our "relationship" which came out of the blue, without any warning... Beware of him, he will get tired of you too! and enjoy you time in the OBX, I too have been there with him...

manxxman said...

Oh my Tom......I've learned more in this post.....and "comments" about you and your ex than anything you posted. I was always curious, but also knew it was for you to reveal anything that might have happened.

All I know is that you are a content person now.....and that's a good thing.

Anonymous said...

Really? What would you call someone who acted like you did in the situation? Seriously, it sounds like he got you a car when, for whatever reason, you couldn't. And then for whatever the reasons are you guys broke up and you dumped your car loan on him and saddled him with an additional car payment. In that situation no matter what the break up reason was, I would have man'd up and told him I was selling the car or trading it in instead of just dumping it back to him, which the car probably wasn't worth the loan amount left on it. Your behavior sounds like the behavior of a "petty fag". And yes from your rainbow flag posts I think it fits. FYI - Think what you want, but I'd never date someone who would have a long term relationship with someone who would have a gay ass license tag on thier car, and then want others opinion on which tag is gayer. Butch it up a little Mary. Abd why should I be pittied for calling you a fag?

manxxman said...

My anonymous......you've got some butch balls.....why are you hiding behind "anonymous" and yet spouting out such anger.....sounds like you've got lots of issues of your own to work.....go away.

UP said...

I think anonymous might be your ex or a serious closet case!

the cajun said...

What makes those like "anonymous" think we give a rat's ass what they think?
Unless one has been there, one should refrain from judging the actions of others.

Tom (Thomas) Rimington said...

Actually I like a little confrontation in the gay ranks... Anonymous has a right to his or her thoughts... They are not my problem and never will be...

Everyone is entitled to thier opinions, I just choose to identify myself for the MAN I am...

Regards and thanks to all

Tom

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